After fighting with the Subaru dealer that I purchased the car used from and tried to explain that the previous owners had set the password and it was on them to figure this **** out, I got fed up waiting.
This is all you need:
A micro SD card
And this link
http://avic411.com/index.php?/topic/32929-x930bt-password-recovery-obsolete/&page=11&tab=comments#comment-281585
I was a little worried at first thinking it was hacking it and it would be a pain in the ass but it was just like a test mode it boots you up in and this link has pictures to follow and it's so damn simple wish I would have done this rather then fight for a month with my dealer!